I checked both stores, cause they are both "good" ones, but newegg was always cheaper for what I wanted, Also, hen I ordered my case it said it would be a week or so to get here, got here in 2 days.
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I feel like the worst friend in the world.
My best friend is pregnant. Again. She's going to go through with everything and she's super excited.
I'm completely mortified by the whole ordeal. I think she's ruining her life. She's only 20 and she's in her third year of university.
I almost feel like she did this on purpose because her relationship was a little unsteady and she had been talking about it a lot lately. Then BAM she's preggers.
I honestly don't know how to feel. You guys probably won't either, but I feel better for having typed this all out.
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Started by Apirka, Oct 13 2009 07:22 AM
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Posted 13 October 2009 - 09:00 AM
What you feel is what you feel. You can't change that by actively thinking differently. So don't try, that will just make things messy. Tell her the truth, but be supportive. No matter the reason, her life is going to be completely different from now on. And even if she wants it, trust me, she is scared. No human since the caveman days has had a baby and not been scared for one reason or another.
O, and don't look at the reasons. It doesn't matter anymore. What is done is done.
O, and don't look at the reasons. It doesn't matter anymore. What is done is done.
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Posted 13 October 2009 - 03:02 PM
Fuck. That. Shit. I'm with you 100% having a baby at 20 is not a smart option, even more so seeing as the relationship is already unsteady. Unsteady relationship + baby =/= steady relationship. Best of luck to her, at least she's excited, i suppose it's her viewpoint that matters most.
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Posted 13 October 2009 - 09:35 PM
pfft i know how you feel everyone i know is pregnant i feel the same way when they say there gonna keep it and most of my friends that already have kids there lifes have totally changed mostly i just warn them that its gonna change there life drastically and i alwasy look at the bright side at least your not pregnant. friends tend to make stupid decisions
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 01:44 AM
sorry to hear..I think having a child at a young age and in the current economy isn't really the smartest thing to do.
unless she or her bf is rich as hell...then you got the money problem solved..
unless she or her bf is rich as hell...then you got the money problem solved..
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 10:07 AM
Well,
What to say?
There's really no ideal situation
to raise a child anyhow.
If you wait until your financially set
you may find yourself to old to
really keep up with the child.
In his twenties Naru could race
around as much as any kid,
not so much now.
Naru believes if she stops with
just this one child, she could do well
even if she becomes a single mother.
If she has more kids she's crazy, and to hell with her.
What to say?
There's really no ideal situation
to raise a child anyhow.
If you wait until your financially set
you may find yourself to old to
really keep up with the child.
In his twenties Naru could race
around as much as any kid,
not so much now.
Naru believes if she stops with
just this one child, she could do well
even if she becomes a single mother.
If she has more kids she's crazy, and to hell with her.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 07:04 PM
QUOTE (NARU.EXE @ Oct 14 2009, 10:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If she has more kids she's crazy, and to hell with her.
QUOTE (Apirka @ Oct 13 2009, 07:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I feel like the worst friend in the world.
My best friend is pregnant. Again.
My best friend is pregnant. Again.
I think when she said Again that its her friends 2nd kid
if thats the case then its crazy having 2 kids at 20 in this economy 1 i thjink is ok but 2 is a bit much especially if your in an unstable relationship.
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Posted 14 October 2009 - 11:08 PM
Holy crap. I didn't catch that. Yeah, crazy now. I just thought, one kid, give her a break. 2=Crazy.
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 08:34 AM
She didn't have the first kid... I probably should have mentioned that.
She's going to keep going to school I just found out.
She's going to keep going to school I just found out.
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 08:47 AM
She didn't have the first kid? Then who did?
And, good. Always best to stay in school
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 02:08 PM
QUOTE (Silent3xe @ Oct 13 2009, 06:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Fuck. That. Shit. I'm with you 100% having a baby at 20 is not a smart option
I only have one reply to this part, my wife and I got married back on April 10th, 1999. She was 20 (turning 21 on May 21st) and I was 21. Two months after being married, we were pregnant. Yes, she was 21 at the time of delivery (and conception if I figured it out right) but to limit one to what age to have kids is right or wrong no longer exists in this day and age except for legal issues (age of consent).
The whole relationship part I can agree with. Just because she's pregnant isn't going to save and/or help the relationship any. If anything, it could make it worse. Hopefully he knows what is going on (and what was going on then as well) because if he don't, he can say it was entrapment and fight the whole issue (and don't say that he can't because he can. It's already been done in court and the guy won).
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Posted 15 October 2009 - 04:43 PM
QUOTE (Theredbaron @ Oct 15 2009, 11:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She didn't have the first kid? Then who did?
And, good. Always best to stay in school
Don't be a fool, stay in school
Be cool, stay in school
and all that good stuff.
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QUOTE (Warlock @ Oct 15 2009, 05:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I only have one reply to this part, my wife and I got married back on April 10th, 1999. She was 20 (turning 21 on May 21st) and I was 21. Two months after being married, we were pregnant. Yes, she was 21 at the time of delivery (and conception if I figured it out right) but to limit one to what age to have kids is right or wrong no longer exists in this day and age except for legal issues (age of consent).
The whole relationship part I can agree with. Just because she's pregnant isn't going to save and/or help the relationship any. If anything, it could make it worse. Hopefully he knows what is going on (and what was going on then as well) because if he don't, he can say it was entrapment and fight the whole issue (and don't say that he can't because he can. It's already been done in court and the guy won).
The whole relationship part I can agree with. Just because she's pregnant isn't going to save and/or help the relationship any. If anything, it could make it worse. Hopefully he knows what is going on (and what was going on then as well) because if he don't, he can say it was entrapment and fight the whole issue (and don't say that he can't because he can. It's already been done in court and the guy won).
She's pretty immature. Like two months ago we were talking about how we still feel like kids.
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Posted 18 October 2009 - 12:20 AM
lol isn't everyone immature? I think you get worse as you age. Because you know you are getting older and everything for sure is changing.
There is no ideal time to have a child. As some of you agree. But the truth is every decision you make be it having a child or not has it's awesome and shitty outcomes. And just because she is going to have a kid. It doesn't mean she can't have a future. Having a baby might even make her even more decisive and will give her the determination to do what is needed. If she is a strong willed person she'll finish school.
I think the dumbest thing though is when you pop one baby after another. Now that is just plain out dumb. Condoms and other shit exist*falling down a stair case?* Anyway I'm cheering for her. Well I think strongly of women. I was raised by a single mom. Even though she raised us all fucked up and shit she did it. And in the end it's up to us to live. That's how nature is. YOu throw the birdy out of the nest. If the fucker wants to fly he'll fly. And if he flies but decides to be lazy he'll die. GO GO DARWIN!
There is no ideal time to have a child. As some of you agree. But the truth is every decision you make be it having a child or not has it's awesome and shitty outcomes. And just because she is going to have a kid. It doesn't mean she can't have a future. Having a baby might even make her even more decisive and will give her the determination to do what is needed. If she is a strong willed person she'll finish school.
I think the dumbest thing though is when you pop one baby after another. Now that is just plain out dumb. Condoms and other shit exist*falling down a stair case?* Anyway I'm cheering for her. Well I think strongly of women. I was raised by a single mom. Even though she raised us all fucked up and shit she did it. And in the end it's up to us to live. That's how nature is. YOu throw the birdy out of the nest. If the fucker wants to fly he'll fly. And if he flies but decides to be lazy he'll die. GO GO DARWIN!
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